French kissing is considered more sexually arousing than kissing (a kiss without a tongue), since the lips, tongue, and other areas of the mouth are erogenous sensitive areas that induce sexual arousal and pleasure. This type of sexual kiss is best left out when in private, as evidenced by a 2019 You Go Omnibus survey, which revealed that only 15% of Brits feel comfortable with French kissing in public. Like anything you want to do right without fear of embarrassment, French kissing can be nerve-wracking.
When tongue kissing, you can be overwhelmed by different thoughts simultaneously, such as which way to tilt your head, what to do with your tongue, where to put your hands, etc. Knowing how to French kiss well versus knowing how to French kiss amazingly, is the key. Below is our practical step-by-step guide on how to French kiss, including how to French kiss someone for the first time to help build your confidence and calm your mind. Before locking lips, there are a few things to keep in mind to ensure you’re prepared for the big moment and avoid any embarrassing mishaps.
A soft, moist mouth makes kissing more enjoyable. Before French kissing, make sure your lips aren’t chapped or dry so your partner isn’t distracted or uncomfortable with the state of your mouth. If you want to get softer lips before kissing, try using a lip stick, drinking water to stay hydrated, or skillfully licking your lips. To get ready before your next meeting, buy a lip scrub and use it beforehand to remove dead skin.
When French kissing, a fresh breath is ideal, especially since your mouth will be open. You can do this by practicing good dental hygiene habits, such as brushing your teeth or rinsing your mouth with water beforehand. Alternatively, consider carrying peppermint or gum flavored with mint so you can chew/eat it beforehand to give your breath a nice scent. Avoid eating foods that leave an unpleasant aftertaste or residue in your mouth (such as onions, garlic, coffee, milk, and corn), especially at dinner date.
although this can be difficult, it is important before attempting French kissing that you try to relax and calm your nerves. Otherwise, your body may tense up, making the experience awkward and less enjoyable. Take a deep breath, relax your body, and above all, believe in yourself.
for things to go smoothly, you need to know when and how to appropriately start a French kiss. The great time is when there’s built up sexual tension and intimacy is growing, like courtship. You both should be in the same mindset.